Yeah, I know. D: In theory I'd be happy to be open about it and I don't want to be more than acquaintances with anyone who'd be a dick about it-- happily I have awesome uni friends who are all cool with it, I'd told them all by about the end of first year-- but, with law particularly, I have to keep in mind the uncomfortable reality that I may end up having to work with a lot of these people or in the same professional community as them, so I've got to be slightly more careful than I otherwise might. Also I just don't like unnecessary confrontation, so I'll start a fight with someone in a lecture about their stance on something, but I won't go out of my way to test it by telling people my sexuality with no prompting. It's none of their business anyway.